# Practice voluntary discomfort to become more resilient
In situations of necessity, self-control is both necessary and difficult to summon. Since we live in a world where we avoid every possible source of discomfort, we are very poorly prepared to face adversity. That is why ==**it can be beneficial to *voluntarily* let go of some comfort at times, in order to remind yourself that your current life is a luxury and to prepare yourself for harsher times**==, should they come. Stoics such as Seneca devised a few tests you can impose to yourself:
1. Avoiding an available source of pleasure without making a fuss about it;
2. Living with less for a few days;
3. Spending time alone;
4. Doing nonconform things.
Doing anything that makes you uncomfortable is a great way to become mentally stronger.
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