> SEDUCE WITH YOUR EYES: A Lesson in Hypnosis & Eye Contact | The Means of Seduction. Directed by The Means of Seduction, 2020. YouTube, <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YYyEkXu_76g>. # Use your eyes for hypnosis in a seduction context ^9327eb Seduction consists in influencing and enticing those in your life from whom you would like to acquire something. Principles of hypnosis: 1. Focus 2. Fatigue 3. Pacing and Leading 4. Embedding Commands ## 1. Focus "Focus the participant's gaze on a single object." In seduction's case, the object is your eyes. Establish direct eye contact and maintain it. ## 2. Fatigue "The tired feeling someone might get from looking at the same thing for a long time." Curtail the environment to mitigate distractions. Focus the conversation on only you two. Knowing fatigue is likely, maintain eye contact and readilly provide a source of relief. While speaking, brush your hair or contract your biceps: this will shift attention away from your eyes, but keep it on you. ## 3. Pacing and Leading "Bring attention to the trance-like state and using it to further the state." Bring someone's awareness to what they are doing or how they're making you feel. If possible, turn the observation into a compliment. After providing relief, resume eye contact and thank your partner for listening to you, for instance. ## 4. Embedding Commands Subtlety is the key to avoid breaking the spell and dismantling the trance. Use "I" statements during the command. Instead of "You need to give me a raise," you may want to say "I have thoroughly enjoyed my time working here and, given that I am hoping to grow within this company, I'd appreciate the chance to discuss my salary." This embeds multiple ideas all at once.